Well its been a week since I talked to BW, over that since I saw him... and I am doing fine (for the most part). Not that I didn't think I would be "ok" I knew I would. It's not like our entire relationship hasn't been long distance up until recently and we have spent many months not seeing each other. It is just different this time because we can't talk every day, but we do have email (and he is doing much better with writing emails) and I am very thankful for that.
It just seems that recently so many girls at work are dealing with the "hardships" of not seeing their husbands/boyfriends for "sooo long" and I am over it. Is that bad? I don't really think so. I just don't really need to hear someone else go on and on about how they "haven't seen him for 5 whole days!" Or the one girl who thought she would be coming in tonight with a swollen face and red eyes from crying all day since he just left today and has been walking around all night trying to get people to ask how she is doing... I just can't handle that, whether or not my man is gone, don't bring it to work. Life does go on, girls!
I am actually looking forward to a great month... work is super busy which is fantastic for me, I am getting at least one night of overtime each week -- could have more, but four nights is enough for me!! My weekends are all full of fun stuff... a fun wives' club meeting last weekend, a party with the girls from work this Friday, Alix coming into town Friday and Saturday; Alicia coming to town next weekend (and we cannot wait for some serious A & J time!!) and then the boys are back the next weekend!
All-in-all everything is great, I guess I just needed a little "venting therapy" for my own well-being and after reading another military wive's blog along the same lines of what I am feeling just wanted to get my thoughts out. Don't get me wrong, I miss my boy... lots some days! But, he is worth this wait, as well as all the others and I am just looking forward to the fun we will be back to having when he is back in town!
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1 comments:
I hear ya, Jess!
I certainly don't expect pity from anyone, and get a bit uncomfortable when its offered, but I don't necessarily want to have to dish it out either.
Thanks for the link! :)
Tiff
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